On Day 2, repeat. On the second day, do everything you did on Day 1. Hopefully, things are starting to go a little more smoothly. Keep referring to your notes.
It might help to look over your class schedule at home so you start to memorize that math follows English and science follows gym, but only on Tuesdays! After 1 week, pat yourself on the back. When you've been at your school for a whole week, it's time to give yourself a round of applause.
You've probably absorbed a ton of new information — all in a short time. You probably know your locker combination, where your assigned seat is in all your classes, where the bathrooms are, and how to get to the cafeteria.
Do you still get lost on the way to gym? If so, find a buddy who goes to gym at the same time and walk together. If you find you're having trouble with schoolwork or friends, don't panic but do get help.
Just like in elementary school, ask the teacher for extra help after class if you don't understand something you're learning. You also might have study halls in middle school — these free periods are great for talking to a teacher or getting a jump on your homework. Also talk to your mom or dad if you're having trouble with your classes.
It could be that you're just a little rusty after that long summer. But if your problems don't go away, you'll want to talk to the teacher and maybe a school counselor. When it comes to friends, the switch to a new school can leave you feeling a little dizzy. What if your best friend isn't in any of your classes and you never see him or her? What if none of your friends even goes to your school? Middle school is a good time to make new connections and new friends.
Sometimes, it's easy to make a new friend. You might meet the first day and then hang out all year long. But it also can go more slowly, especially if it seems like a lot of kids are already hanging out together in groups that don't include you. Let someone know how it's going for you. Talk to your mom, dad, or a school counselor if you're feeling lonely and it's not getting any better.
You might wonder what you can do to feel less lonely and make friends. Here's something: Try joining a club, sport, or activity. It's a great way to get to know kids you don't know yet.
Being in these groups also can help you feel more at home at your school. By next year, you'll be that cool older kid who's helping out the new kid. If he's lost on the way to the gym, please show him the way! Some they may quickly give up on. Others may radically shape who they become and what they do with their life.
Their parents, teachers and the other adults around them should support this process. There is a growing awareness of the effect that school bullying and the toxic morass of the online world has on children and their development. It is crucial for schools to actively promote a school environment that encourages kids who are struggling socially and experiencing bullying to seek help.
It is also crucial for that help to be available. Too often children who tried to get help were dismissed and bullying was seen as normal childhood behavior. For kids to love school it needs to be a place they feel safe, respected and listened to. It also needs to be a place they can develop healthy friendships that enrich their lives. The earlier kids are exposed to these these important strategies the better.
This includes making sure children and are socially and mentally ready as early as kindergarten. Of course, creating beneficial learning experiences for kids as they move through the grades is a process that continually evolves. Children are resilient and will respond to positive reinforcement at any age to assist them in being better students that want to be in school and learn. The Kid Friendly Search Engine. The Family Fun Digital Detox. Safe Search App for Kids.
If your child needs ongoing support to stay engaged in school, ask the school about forming an attendance student support group.
Talk with the school about a gradual start back at school for your child. For example, your child might be able to start with a shorter school day or with their favourite subjects, and build up from there. Working on school refusal at home: practical strategies Here are some practical things you can do at home to encourage your child to go to school.
Use clear, calm statements that let your child know you expect them to go to school. Show that you believe your child can go to school by saying positive and encouraging things. Plan for a calm start to the day by having morning and evening routines. For example, get uniforms, lunches and school bags ready the night before, get your child to have a shower or bath in the evening, and get your child to bed at a regular time. This means little or no TV or video games and so on.
You could think about not letting your child use their phone during school hours. Get your child to do work provided by the school while at home. Provide consequences that reduce the amount of attention your child gets for not going to school — for example, an early bedtime or limited time with you at night.
Getting to school Get someone else to drop your child at school, if you can. Children often cope better with separation at home rather than at the school gate. Praise and reward your child for going to school. For example, if your child goes regularly, they could earn bonus technology time, a special outing with a parent to their favourite park, or their favourite meal for dinner. Getting professional help for school refusal Families can get professional help to learn about managing school refusal and to sort out the problems behind it.
Looking after yourself School refusal can be hard to handle, and it can be very worrying.
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