Why cocky funny works

Me : No, wait. Pull 5. Unbelievably easy, right? I texted her about an hour later, and she texted back, asking what I was doing tomorrow.

The rest is history, because a gentleman never kisses and tells. Notice the push-pull ratio here. That was 5 pulls to 1 push. The one push came after 4 pulls. This sort of Pull Cocky-Funny can get you super fast makeouts and, as my natural friends have shown, club bathroom hookups. Another great example comes from Zan.

Among the community old-timers, Zan is probably the best representative of this kind of cocky-funny. There are so many possibilities to choose from, but this conversation of his has stuck in my mind for a while now:. If she says she is not interested and leaves, no problem. But if I ever see her again, I immediately go up to her, smile and wink, and pick up right where I left off. As if she had never resisted me in the first place. In other words, her boyfriend objections or whatever mean nothing to me.

ZAN: smile, wink Really? I have two bottles of champagne at home. I find this whole exchange completely charming and hilarious. Zan pulls her in about seven times. Just about everything he says is a pull. This is the ideal kind of frame to be operating from when doing Pull Cocky-Funny. So there you have it. Push Cocky-Funny vs. Pull Cocky-Funny. Both can work. Try this simple "copy paste" text message to get her intrigued, and thinking that she made a mistake. I want to turn things around with her so we can be a LOT more than friends.

I'm cool being friend zoned by girls I want to date. Connect with us. How To Be Cocky Funny. With push, you are cocky enough to think that you are too good for the girl, so you push her away. With pull, you are cocky enough to think that you are irresistible to her and to women in general, and you want her, so you pull her in.

This applies only if the following also hold: a. The more you do all of this, the more exciting, suspenseful, and fun it becomes for her. And then… abracadabra… the more attractive to her that YOU become. Like I said, attractive women have their choice of guys. You: [Smile and say in a relaxed manner] Okay, nevermind the 3 coffees. Just one coffee, a piece of chocolate cake and a cookie.

This is attractive to women because in that moment, you are using your confidence, masculinity and social intelligence to slightly dominate her. She looks at you as being a complex, interesting man with whom she will be able to experience a variety of exciting emotions.

Compare that to a boring, nice guy who only has the capacity to make her feel a small variety of safe emotions. To get their respect, you mostly need to not worry about getting their respect.

Get that? For example: You will appear a bit tense, you will seem to doubt yourself around her, etc. Women are attracted to the confidence in men, so the more self-belief you have around women, the more they like you. Here are some things that I have said and that I have taught to clients that will demonstrate your confidence and ability to use humor:. Her: So, are you going to buy me a drink? You: Because I am such a gentleman, I will let you buy me one first.

Ladies first as they say! Her: [Laughing] Example 6 Her: So, are you going to buy me a drink? You: Sure, but the first round is on you okay? You: Sure, would you like a lemon in the water, or just a plain glass of water with a straw? See how it works? You are being playfully arrogant in the way you respond to her. This is a much cooler, effective way of using the outdated cocky and funny approach.

However, if she is attracted to you, then there is a high chance you will be kissing her and then taking her home for sex after a few drinks, so go ahead and get the first round. What would you ever stop busting her balls? Why would you ever stop now? Hey, by all accounts she should have been all over me. Teasing properly can be fun and it can enhance the interaction by making more interesting and flirtatious. However, at some point, there has to be a real person there. This does not mean you stop teasing completely.

Rather, you sprinkle it in. Imagine teasing as if it were table salt. You want to sprinkle a bit of salt on your meal to give it a kick but you can easily overdo it and ruin the meal. In fact, use the table-salt analogy to your advantage from now. Here is the formula: More teasing in the beginning of the interaction, and less teasing as you build rapport. At this point, use it as table salt. They never mention that part!

They were not touting advice because they had discovered something that worked for them. Rather, they were making observations of other people that had a working model, but the observers never understood the nuts and bolts of it.

They were marketers. Learn to be playful and confident, childlike. The source of your confidence comes from your aura and demeanor, not from insults. Are you talking to a girl who looks she just walked off a porn set or are you talking to a woman who is an artist or someone who is very spiritual and reads Deepak Chopra for breakfast?

Make sure your personality is congruent with your approach. Understand that cocky-funny is part of an attitude and personality, not just lines.